Third note

I can imagine, that after a while it gets annoying, when I compare you, with Kálmán. Maybe I was joking with it too much, sorry. (It's interesting that in English, the word 'you' starts with a small y, and 'I' is a capital letter. Marguerita was always changing the orthography of these two words; she wrote You, and i, and very often I also write You with capital Y, but here, in this text, I would like to keep the traditional orthography.)
Of course there are some similarities. And if you focus on them, of course you can recognize them from time to time. And it is interesting to see some people, who you know, but they don't know each other, and who are familiar a little bit.
But there are very big differences of course. One of these is, that you ask questions, which I appreciate a lot in you.
Both of you speaks a lot to me, and both of you likes to share his experiences. I am happy, that I can be a witness of your thoughts, I am grateful for you, even if sometimes I get tired of listening.
You Tarjei, have the speacial quality of the equal balance between sharing thoughts and listening. You can listen too me as long as you are speaking too me. I feel that you give the same seriousness to my message, what you give to your owns. I think that's a big gift.